Last Updated on 17th December 2025 by Charlie Walsh
If you’ve had a prostatectomy, you’re probably dealing with more than just the usual recovery aches and changes. For many men, the biggest concern is simple but heavy: how can I get hard after prostatectomy? It’s a question that blends physical health with confidence, intimacy, and masculinity. And while it’s a tough challenge, it’s not without solutions.
Erectile dysfunction (ED) after prostate surgery is common. But common doesn’t mean permanent. Understanding the mechanisms, the treatments, and the mindset shifts can help you find a path forward that works for your body and your lifestyle.
Why ED Happens After Prostatectomy
When the prostate is surgically removed, usually as treatment for prostate cancer, it often disrupts the delicate nerve pathways and blood vessel networks responsible for erections. Surgeons sometimes attempt nerve-sparing procedures, but even then, trauma and healing can affect erectile function.
Research suggests that nearly all men experience some level of ED immediately after surgery. Recovery varies: some regain function within months, others take years, and some may never return to pre-surgery levels [1].
It isn’t just physical. Stress, anxiety, and self-consciousness can amplify the problem. If you’ve ever found yourself caught in a spiral of performance worry, you already know how mental strain can shut things down fast.
The Science of Recovery: What’s Going On
Penile tissue relies on healthy blood flow and regular erections to stay oxygenated and functional. Without stimulation, the tissue can atrophy or lose elasticity. That’s why early interventions – often called “penile rehabilitation” – are encouraged.
Studies show that even when nerves take time to recover, using treatments to encourage blood flow can preserve tissue health and improve long-term outcomes [2]. In other words: activity matters, even if natural erections aren’t yet possible.
Treatment Options: What Actually Works
Oral Medications
Drugs like sildenafil (Viagra) and tadalafil (Cialis) are often prescribed. They improve blood flow by relaxing vascular smooth muscle. However, they only work if at least some nerve function remains. If nerves are heavily damaged, the response can be limited.
Injections and Suppositories
Alprostadil, delivered either by penile injection or urethral suppository, directly stimulates blood flow to create an erection. Not exactly romantic, but for some men, highly effective.
Vacuum Erection Devices
This is where things get interesting. Pumps create a vacuum around the penis, drawing blood in and producing an erection. Unlike medications, they don’t rely on nerve signals, which makes them valuable during recovery. Some men exploring erection quality also look at our hydro-technology for performance: water-based pumps add comfort and consistency, making them a practical addition to rehabilitation.
Implants
For men who don’t respond to other therapies, surgical penile implants provide a reliable solution. While effective, they’re a major step and typically considered after other avenues have been exhausted.
Risks, Safety, and Realistic Expectations
It’s important to be clear: no treatment offers guaranteed restoration to pre-surgery function. Many men regain satisfying erections, but they may not feel exactly the same.
Using pumps incorrectly can cause bruising; overusing medication can trigger headaches or heart concerns; and injections, while effective, need careful technique. That’s why medical supervision matters. Don’t improvise.
One overlooked factor is timing. Rehabilitation started sooner rather than later is associated with better outcomes [3]. Waiting years before trying to restore function can make recovery harder.
What Doctors Say
Urologists often stress three points: patience, persistence, and variety. Patience, because nerves may take 18-24 months to heal. Persistence, because regular rehabilitation improves outcomes. Variety, because no single solution works for everyone.
Some physicians advocate daily low-dose PDE5 inhibitors combined with pumps. Others prefer early injection therapy. The key takeaway: expert guidance shapes the plan, and personalization is critical.
Doctors also emphasize screening and prevention. If you haven’t already, it’s worth checking for prostate cancer at home or via regular PSA testing. Preventive action often makes treatments less invasive in the long run.
Lifestyle Factors That Influence Recovery
Beyond devices and prescriptions, lifestyle plays a real role. Cardiovascular health directly links to erectile quality, which means exercise, balanced diet, and weight management matter.
Managing stress is equally important. Meditation, counseling, or even honest conversations with your partner can reduce performance anxiety. Some men find that removing the mental load makes physical recovery smoother.
Alcohol, smoking, and poor sleep also undermine sexual function. These aren’t quick fixes, but stacking small habits can speed up recovery more than most men expect.
Pelvic Floor Exercises
One underrated tool for recovery is pelvic floor training. Strengthening the muscles around the base of the penis and pelvic region improves circulation and control. A study published in BJU International found that men who practiced these exercises regained function faster than those who didn’t [4]. They’re discreet, require no equipment, and can be done almost anywhere.
Psychological Support
Performance anxiety is real, and ignoring it rarely helps. Talking with a therapist, joining a men’s health support group, or simply opening up to your partner can reduce the mental barriers to recovery. ED after surgery isn’t only a physical setback – it often feels like an identity crisis. Addressing that head-on makes a difference.
What Men Report Experiencing
Although every man’s story is different, a few common themes appear in patient reports and surveys. Most men say progress is gradual – small gains first, then more reliable function. Many emphasize the psychological boost of just knowing they’re taking action, whether that’s starting pump therapy, trying medication, or engaging in pelvic floor exercises.
Others note frustration. Recovery can feel painfully slow, and comparing yourself to “normal” can make it worse. The men who adapt best often shift perspective: instead of chasing their old baseline, they focus on what works now and build from there.
The Role of Intimacy and Communication
A subject often overlooked is how relationships adapt after surgery. Some men avoid intimacy altogether, fearing embarrassment. Ironically, this can increase stress and widen the emotional gap with their partner.
Talking openly with your partner about expectations and progress creates trust. It also relieves pressure. Intimacy isn’t only about penetration – there are other ways to stay connected while recovery continues. Many men report that this shift actually deepens their relationships, taking the focus away from performance alone.
Final Thoughts from Bathmate
So, if you’re wondering how to get hard after prostatectomy, the answer isn’t simple, but it is hopeful. Options exist, from pills to pumps to lifestyle shifts, and while the path may be long, progress is possible.
At Bathmate, we believe in science-led, safety-first solutions. For many men, pumps aren’t just tools for performance – they’re part of the rehabilitation process, keeping tissue oxygenated and helping restore confidence. Combined with medical guidance and realistic expectations, they can make a real difference.
Recovery is rarely linear, but it’s never hopeless. Start early, stay consistent, and explore the options that fit your needs.
References
[1] Tal, R., & Mulhall, J. P. (2009). Erectile dysfunction following radical prostatectomy: Prevention and management. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 6(1), 203–218.[2] Montorsi, F., et al. (1997). Recovery of spontaneous erectile function after nerve-sparing radical retropubic prostatectomy with and without early intracavernous injections of alprostadil: Results of a prospective, randomized trial. The Journal of Urology, 158(4), 1408–1410.
[3] Burnett, A. L., et al. (2018). Erectile function rehabilitation after radical prostatectomy: Current strategies and future directions. European Urology, 73(2), 271–280.
[4] Dorey, G., et al. (2005). Pelvic floor exercises for erectile dysfunction. BJU International, 96(4), 595–597.
